When I worked for a corporation, I interviewed women executives for Women's History Month articles about their rise to power. While these women indeed impressed me, I believed such powerful women went about hardly noticed in halls of learning, the law, social action, the healing arts, athletics, entertainment and the creative arts.
Herein is my 2018 personal Women's History Month homage to powerful women. I recall 32 women (listed in alphabetical rather than chronological order of our encounters). As they serendipitously entered my life over the years in New York, California and Florida, I discovered what made them remarkable.
Margaret Allen: This retired British World War II government clerk was a transplant to New York when we became neighbors in the 1970s. As she tended her formal English garden to perfection, the charming elderly woman also kept an apron-pocket full of candies she called "Sugarplums" to hand out to my children. After her death at 80-something, I learned she had served her wartime government as a secret agent and courier. Could have fooled me.
Anita Bartholomew penned wide-ranging articles as a contributing editor of Reader's Digest. This determined friend went on to write and ghost write books before turning to life as a book doctor.
Lois Bartlett-Tracy defied convention in the 1920s as she rode on horseback (in trousers) to the hammocks of Florida's West Coast to spend her days creating plein air paintings. In mid-century, she exhibited works in galleries by the name L.B. Tracy to conceal her sex. Before dying at age 106, she won recognition for her modern art. An afternoon interview with Lois for a Sarasota publication resonates: she in her 90s, legally blind yet still painting in her studio, recalled how she refused to stop creating until she made the grade in a man's world.
Carole Bidnick, literary agent, sold books for major publishing houses before setting up her own agency. She also developed and shared her literary network; in the 1980s pointing me toward my most intriguing California freelance gig, assisting the prolific science writer Timothy Ferris in pre-production of his first TV special, The Creation of the Universe. As I see it, this friend of the road introduced me to a modern-day Galileo.
Betty Bivins, Retired United States Marine Corp who served in World War II and the Korean Conflict; Los Angeles schools' English specialist; and owner of The Write Group, she developed a precise business-writing course for employees of major California corporations and trained me to teach it. Her attention to detail thereafter served as my polestar.
Phyllis Bober, Ph. D., Archeologist: This Renaissance scholar and New York University professor was the most extraordinary woman I encountered in my teens. She was educated in an uncommon field, intelligent and gracious. After meeting this neighbor on our tree-lined street, I became babysitter to her two little boys, eager to learn from her. I remember Phyllis dispatching me to her herb garden to clip chives for the children's scrambled-eggs. Recently, I learned of the late professor's writings on medieval gastronomy.
Nancy Callahan, Director, Tampa Oratorio Singers (TOS) and university-trained organist, has led major church choirs for decades and overseen TOS since 2003. My former maestra's command of 70+ TOS singers and orchestra during classical concerts is breathtaking to behold.
Wende Caporale, Portrait artist: When my two daughters, then teenagers, posed for summer portrait classes led by pastel artist Daniel Greene in his North Salem, NY studio barn, his artist wife Wende rendered a pastel portrait study of one daughter and gave it to me as a present. Wende and I connected as women with a fierce love for our children. I treasure the memory of our conversations as much as the extraordinary portrait artist's gift.
Carlene Daggett, Jewelry designer and free spirit, said, while living on a sailboat she sought a creative outlet requiring little space for work and storage. She learned to create jewelry with beads. After settling in a Florida home, she advanced to add gems, sea glass, coral and metal-smithing to her repertoire. With her equally free-spirited husband, my friend camped and biked hundreds of miles around Europe and the United States.
Joy J. DryFoos, AAR: From 1969 to 1981, Joy was a research and planning director for an institute for social change. In 1981, she was an independent researcher/writer supported by the Carnegie Corporation. I served as her researcher in New York for a 100-year history of child healthcare in America. Joy was ardent in promoting community schools with a holistic approach to students, including their physical well-being. She was a social pioneer I was privileged to serve.
Mary Helen Evans, MSW, CSW: A former member of the social work faculty at Fordham University in New York and adoption specialist, this friend has guided generations of social workers and paired children from around the world with parents in the United States. As my supervisor in an early social work career, she mentioned I was a good case-study writer, giving me the nudge to embark on a career in journalism.
Linda Kasal Fusco, Ph.D., is author of the 2017 "Navigating Mathland …", former math and science educator, accomplished musician (voice and instrument), artist, ice hockey player, sailor, scuba diver and explorer of Loch Ness in Scotland is a most well-rounded friend of the road for whom there are no limits.
Gwen Graham is an attorney who served as the U.S. Representative for Florida's 2nd congressional district from 2015 to 2017. She is the daughter of Bob Graham, a former Florida governor and senator. Smart and personable, she deserves my volunteer energy as candidate for governor.
Foxy Gwynne, for years a newspaper columnist of Something Foxy, is a bon vivant who breezily drew admirers to her New York home at the first mention of a party. Foxy’s parties rivaled the Algonquin writers table, a Paris salon and Venetian carnivale. Her entertaining columns about people and places were keenly observed and just as breezy. If ever there was a living Blythe Spirit, it is Foxy.
Becky Harkins, former manager in Information Technology in Florida, fostered women's careers in what was a predominantly male field. She demanded excellence for advancement, conveying the directive with a steel will to match her Southern charm.
Kay Hayward, served as producer of independent films and several segments of the 12-part contemporary American history educational series I co-authored, From Cold War to Hostage Crisis 1946 - 1981. She was a model of organization in planning and executing film shoots whom I imitated in producing short films.
Barbara Jacobs was an executive at Aon, a global giant with U.S. offices in the Twin Towers on September 11, 2001. While most of her colleagues died that day, Barbara survived and soldiered on. She worked for Aon until her retirement; then she fulfilled a dream by training to be a chef in the Big Apple. I admired this friend, who died in 2012, for her courage, resilience and fine mind.
Rebecca Holly Marshall, M.D., is a doctor of internal medicine and a supremely competent diagnostician. Her patients number in the several hundreds, and her rigorous standards and work ethic match those of any supremely competent man. So modest, my Florida doctor would be surprised to be on this list.
Alice McCullough devoted forty-years to being a director of a nursery school in New York, lovingly shepherding children in her care, including my own. I can picture Alice coaxing the shyest children right out of their shells. Like most teachers, she made a difference in countless lives.
Sr. Jean Thomas McHenry, O.P.: As a Sparkill, NY Dominican nun, she steered this newbie through college admissions and early career opportunities, remaining a friend for half a century. She is among the many strong, brilliant nuns who influenced my view of feminism as a vital social force. Today, its foes dismiss feminists as "Nasty Women." Pray tell that to Mother Superior.
Tessa Melvin, magazine and New York Times writer: With her exuberant spirit, she managed to be all business, upbeat and an ally in the trade.
Kimberly Morehouse, actress of stage and television, is a vivacious, accomplished performer living in New York whom I call friend. She is an inspiration for her determination and achievements in a tough business.
Jillian Nelson is a photographer, former underwater archeologist and Associated Press reporter, who, whenever we chance to meet in New York, exhibits a dazzling love of life, cats, flowers and all beauty.
Sheila Peterson founded Friends of Karen, a New York charity for families of children with life-threatening illness. Her compassion led her to establish an agency to aid financially beleaguered families. It was my honor to interview her for a newspaper and to write a second article after Sheila was killed in a car accident.
Lynn Pippenger, who retired as a Florida corporate chief financial officer in 2012, was named Philanthropist of the Year for giving more than $26 million to a university school of business. Hired as a payroll clerk in 1969 by a newish firm, she started its HR department, filed the papers taking the company public and introduced an employee financial education program. I knew her as a mild-mannered role model who made great use of her 33-work years and beyond.
Andrea Raynor, a Harvard-educated minister, hospice chaplain and author, has the soul of a poet and talent for 20+-year friendships. While assistant pastor at a Connecticut church, she led worship services for inmates at Danbury Federal Correctional Institution. In the fall of 2001, she began volunteering at Ground Zero as one of the chaplains ministering to first responders and blessing the remains of those who died. She is the chaplain of the Rye, NY fire department.
Dotty Smith, newspaper editor, was an engaging, natural coach of reporters at a Westchester County, NY Gannett newsroom and at her memorable, women-reporters-only Block Island, RI get-away. Faced with today's assaults on journalistic integrity, I am insulted on her behalf and on behalf of fellow news writers.
Gabriele Stauf is a Registered Yoga Teacher (RYT) with decades spent teaching college students and the general public in Bainbridge and Americus, Georgia, and Florida. While a new instructor to me, Gabriele embodies the gifts of inner strength and bliss I have experienced in yoga practice since I was 25.
Alice Stewart, Director of Social Work for children in institutional and foster care in New York, was sensitive to her staff and devoted to the welfare of children in their care. More than 40 years after attending her staff meetings, I recall her leadership and my sense of pride and responsibility in being on her team.
Carole Torreano, retired vice president in Information Technology and Ironman competitor: As an executive in Florida, she commanded the respect of hundreds of IT professionals. She also relished athletic challenges and urged novice athletes to sign up for U.S. Masters' swim meets, sprint triathlons, triathlons and Ironman events - all the way to Hawaii. This great motivator introduced the skeptical me to my swim meet and sprint-triathlete self.
Gretchen van Aken, actress and singer, veered off Broadway onto an unlikely course, becoming a Yale-educated minister serving churches in New York and university campus ministries in Florida. Retired, she fused both aspects of her life into a one-woman show, "Called Girl," performed in Florida venues. This vibrant friend is an Auntie Mame in show biz and life.
Becky Weaver, IBM engineer, meticulously executed her advancement in technology, at a young age settling into an Armonk, NY headquarters' position. She made time to focus on her passion for singing as a soprano soloist and to buy, renovate and decorate a graceful old house in Connecticut. All of this friend's efforts were simply exquisite, making her death from cancer at age 42 a blow to all who knew her.
I marvel at all of these women, grateful they conveyed so many facets of personal power and ways to be a unique force of nature. This list is by no means complete: Absent are my family members, school pals and many coworkers, friends and famous women and men who influenced my life. Still, this is a giant thank you for the good fortune to have encountered role models I was seeking. They appeared at forks in my road with signs that read, “Go this way.” They still do.
This is a banner year for remembering women have substance; women have personal agency, meaning they are humans "through which power is used or something is achieved."